'With routines' is my stock answer to the question of 'how are you coping?'
Mr Trifectagirl has always teased me about my systems and routines - he affectionately calls me Sheldon.
But they're keeping the household running, cleaning done and healthy food on the table. Just as they did when Mum was in the ICU. Plus I'm still working part time and knocking off a few of those pesky 'to dos' as well. It's just the ironing that's missing out (I HATE ironing!).
The systems need tweaking and refining, but they're keeping us moving forward and we'll find things that work for us now as time progresses.
Besides, what else am I going to do? I can't loose the plot - it's no good for J, Mr Trifectagirl or myself.