Saturday 16 June 2012

It's Over

Mr Trifectagirl passed away peacefully in his sleep two days ago. 

The stress and hell of the last 3 months is now over.

I had been to see him the night before, and was able to tell him I loved him, thank him for being my husband and for our son.  And to tell him is was ok to leave us if he needed to.

We are now in the process of planning the funeral.

At this stage I am  operating on auto-pilot, but am ok. I have good moments and bad moments, but I'm focused on a 16 month old little boy who needs his mummy.

12 comments:

  1. My condolences and huge (((HUGS)).

    ReplyDelete
  2. I am so sorry! Wish I had words to express how sorry I am. Thinking of you during this time.

    ReplyDelete
  3. I am so sorry for your loss.

    ReplyDelete
  4. Life seems so unfair. I am so very sorry for your loss. Wishing you peace during this difficult time

    ReplyDelete
  5. here from LFCA, I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    love and peace to you

    ReplyDelete
  6. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Here from LFCA.

    ReplyDelete
  7. I'm so sorry! Lots of ((hugs)) and prayers!

    ReplyDelete
  8. There are no words. I'm so sorry for your loss, and may his memory be a blessing!

    ReplyDelete
  9. Here from LFCA to let you know how incredibly sorry I am to hear about your loss. I will be thinking of you and your little boy and hoping that you find comfort in the memories you shared together.

    ReplyDelete
  10. I don't know what to say. Life just seems so cruel and unfair. I'm glad you were able to say your good byes and, that you have little J to focus on through this very difficult time. My heart goes out to you and, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'm wishing you strength, peace and healing. Hugs to you.

    ReplyDelete
  11. I don't know you and just happened upon your blog and I just want to express how sorry I am for your tragic loss. I have no words but pray that you would feel God's peace and love in this time of sadness and mourning.

    ReplyDelete